How to handle a cheating husband Cheating on this context is sex. This is one major reason why there are many divorce which mostime ha...
How to handle a cheating husband
Cheating on this context is sex. This is one major reason why there are many divorce which mostime have serious effect on the children. This has nothing to do with virginity. You as a lady may be a virgin but your hubby can be promiscuous.
This topic is made to help save marriages. Below are some ways but you should select because you know your husband more. These ways below if applied and end in nothing,then I advice you to see your parents for further advice because it is beyond your power. Ensure you back everything with prayer whether Christains or Muslim. This affect many marriages but Christains divorce more because of the high level of freedom.
They are:
1) Deliver yourself from every convenant
I included deliverance because in Africa, we have serious spiritual problem than the whites. Incase you have knowing or unknowing entered any convenant eg exboyfriend, society and family, witchcraft ,spiritism break from it.
2) Seek God forgiveness if you had lived a rough live.
Karma sometimes is the reason why home scatter. Imagine a girl of 18 sleeping with a married man because of money. She forget that karma never forgives until you learn in both hard or simple ways. For those slay Queens who do such, check out there marriages few years from now and see. Other rough live include beastiality, lesbianism, pornography, group or party sex, masturbation , prostitution,rape etc. Don't ask but SEEK. When you seek, you weaken karma.
3) Avoid indecent talk
Majority of our problems is caused by our hands. Some women are talkative. Why should you take a bedroom matter to discuss in pretense for a solution in a hairdresser shop?. What happen to the internet or doctors. I don't advice taking to parents because of the mind of news about in-laws and mother's these days who are shameless. Some women will describe all there problem to there friend sometime through chat forgetting that anyone can CHANGE. If devil can enter peter who is that your best friend. Many marriages are taken over by friends. Please stop such. Take your problems to God in prayer especially if he is the one who brought you together.
4) Learn to manage
Yes, learn it. Stop buying things in small quantity when you have enough resources for large quantity. Some women if they want to buy food for dinner, they will buy rice 4cup, egg 200, Maggi salt and pepper 150 etc. Why not at the end of the month, when salary comes, take if it's 20k, go to market and buy them in stock. Reserve the change. In this manner you help.
5) Learn to cook
If you don't know how to cook, go online and follow the instructions. Some app have them. Go to playstore and search for Africa dishes as well as intercontinental. You don't have to go to a catering school. We are now digital. Get those apps they are low are 6mb and follow the instructions. From time to time, cook intercontinental dishes. Change the taste from rice, beans and eba. Most of these meals are cheap to do. Serve him like a Kings and children like prince and princess. When you change taste, trust me, he will give you money, part of it, use for savings if some change will remain
6) Change your dress code
Remember that thing that made him attracted to you in courtship and put it on. Use the above means to get cash. Stop dressing like mama Amira. Dress like slay queen. The world is changing. Read book not watch videos on different ways to handle a man on bed and apply. Learn the ways Chinese use and deal with him. These are what they do. So try these. Note that children are watching so do it when they are not around. Do it when they are not around or send them errands with an elderly person.
7) Unlock your phone
Yes do that, many men are curious when they see you laugh. If your heart is clean and free open it. For things like account balance, business chat, freeze the apps after every discussion,delete or copy or screenshot messages and save in the cloud. Password your cloud.
8) Suprise him by buying gifts
Yes but him gifts, even though it's a boxer buy it. Nothing is too small. Unless his conscience is dead, he will start considering you.
9) Change your character
One major reason why marriages scatter is because no one want to say "I'm sorry". Infact for some women, they will never try if especially when the man is at fault. But what is there. Simple sorry. Yes he caused it. But for peace to reign say it even though it's on your kneel. Pride destroys. Marriage is never an extemption. Say it. It will not remove a hair. Stop nagging. I'll advice read books, attend seminar or videos on marriages. I'll be dealing with marriages so anyone can join. Am doing a seminar for free. Out there, it's never free but so that you will rejoice. You are not in the wrong place. Also ask your questions. When it comes to character, marriages differ but I can help you out. So try these steps.
10) Never leave the war room
Marriage is a will of God but it's the devil doom. Whether Christains or Muslim. Always pray. Do devotion in the morning and Thanksgiving in the evening with them. If you have made a wrong mistake. The war room is there. Always pray. We battle till death. We are born into troubles. So room for rest. Make prayer a habit not an option. Always pray
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